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  <title>Darkoshi</title>
  <subtitle>Darkoshi</subtitle>
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    <name>Darkoshi</name>
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  <updated>2014-09-29T13:27:56Z</updated>
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    <title>aversions</title>
    <published>2014-09-29T12:43:19Z</published>
    <updated>2014-09-29T13:27:56Z</updated>
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    <category term="beards"/>
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    <content type="html">(I'm splitting my prior post into 2 separate ones, in order to expand on a subject.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My impression of the &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transparent_%28TV_series%29"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Transparent&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt; pilot:&lt;br /&gt;I'm intrigued by 2 of the main characters (Maura &amp; Ali), and somewhat put off by the other 2. I was quite put off by the sex scenes, and by the many shots of bare breasts, and squeezing of breasts. The bathroom scene showing bare female buttocks didn't bother me but together with all the rest, the show seems like it was scripted to attract viewers who like female nudity and sex scenes. So while I'm intrigued by part of the story, I'm also put off by a lot of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not liking the nudity and sex scenes probably makes me sound like a prude. Maybe I am? But I don't think that movies/films/books shouldn't be allowed to have scenes like those; I just don't personally like them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why don't I like them? What is it about them that so puts me off? It's not just any sex scenes, or any nudity that puts me off. Only certain kinds. (Although most explicit mainstream sex scenes would fall into that category, which is why I don't watch porn.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take the show "Gray's Anatomy". Its characters were having sex or talking about sex and relationships all the time, but those scenes didn't bother me much (beyond rolling my eyes and thinking "there they go at it &lt;i&gt;again&lt;/i&gt;!").  But most of those scenes weren't very explicit and didn't involve nudity. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I suspect that what I feel is similar to the aversion that some hetero people feel when watching explicit gay scenes.  But what exactly is it that turns me off, and why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://darkoshi.dreamwidth.org/471162.html#cutid1"&gt;Light spoilers follow&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=darkoshi&amp;ditemid=471162" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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