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  <title>aversions</title>
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  <description>(I&apos;m splitting my prior post into 2 separate ones, in order to expand on a subject.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My impression of the &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transparent_%28TV_series%29&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;Transparent&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt; pilot:&lt;br /&gt;I&apos;m intrigued by 2 of the main characters (Maura &amp; Ali), and somewhat put off by the other 2. I was quite put off by the sex scenes, and by the many shots of bare breasts, and squeezing of breasts. The bathroom scene showing bare female buttocks didn&apos;t bother me but together with all the rest, the show seems like it was scripted to attract viewers who like female nudity and sex scenes. So while I&apos;m intrigued by part of the story, I&apos;m also put off by a lot of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not liking the nudity and sex scenes probably makes me sound like a prude. Maybe I am? But I don&apos;t think that movies/films/books shouldn&apos;t be allowed to have scenes like those; I just don&apos;t personally like them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why don&apos;t I like them? What is it about them that so puts me off? It&apos;s not just any sex scenes, or any nudity that puts me off. Only certain kinds. (Although most explicit mainstream sex scenes would fall into that category, which is why I don&apos;t watch porn.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take the show &quot;Gray&apos;s Anatomy&quot;. Its characters were having sex or talking about sex and relationships all the time, but those scenes didn&apos;t bother me much (beyond rolling my eyes and thinking &quot;there they go at it &lt;i&gt;again&lt;/i&gt;!&quot;).  But most of those scenes weren&apos;t very explicit and didn&apos;t involve nudity. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I suspect that what I feel is similar to the aversion that some hetero people feel when watching explicit gay scenes.  But what exactly is it that turns me off, and why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://darkoshi.dreamwidth.org/471162.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;Light spoilers follow&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=darkoshi&amp;ditemid=471162&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <category>beards</category>
  <category>aversion</category>
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