Well, I finished Ancillary Justice a few weeks ago, and then started right into Ancillary Sword. It's still quite gripping.

I think I'm still trying to comprehend how each ancillary is the same or different versus each other and their ship in terms of memories/recall and processing power, etc.

The pronoun thing and not knowing if most of the characters are male or female hasn't been much of an issue for me; I'm not sure how much of that is due to my own non-binaryness.