wondering...

[darkoshi]

1. canvas sneakers.... they're not very waterproof, are they? and they don't usually have much arch-support, do they?

2. it sounds like you can't put a condom on an unerect penis... why? would it slip off because it would be too loose? or is it difficult to put on just because the penis isn't stiff?

3. safer sex.... when people talk about wanting "no exchange of bodily fluids", does that usually not include saliva? how safe or unsafe is open-mouthed kissing considered to be? what about oral sex? doing oral sex without a barrier is generally considered unsafe, isn't it?

As for that last question... I was reading a book in which the author, who seems to be relatively well-known and respected, was saying that except for monogamous heterosexual couples trying to procreate, everyone else should always use condoms while having sex, because due to the risk of diseases, there was "no reason to exchange bodily fluids". But then later he was talking about his partner doing some pretty good oral sex on him. And I wondered if he used a condom for that too, or not...

Comments

Re: exchange of bodily fluids?

[darkoshi]

so why do ppl kiss, especially casually as part of salutations, when it's icky and potentially virus-passing like that?

Re: exchange of bodily fluids?

[flyguy4258.livejournal.com]

Guess they like it..

Re: exchange of bodily fluids?

[darkoshi]

{why? what do they like about it?}

::no, don't ask. it just makes it obvious that you're strange and different from everyone else. you should just nod your head and pretend to understand what everyone else seems to understand without asking and without being able to answer.::

Re: exchange of bodily fluids?

[tinkerbell4393.livejournal.com]

You are wondering why people like to kiss, well its one form of showing affection for people. I have seem any people kiss people on the cheek as they greet them or lightly on the lips no tongue, when they do this they are not thinking of the germs or viruses they could be getting. They are usually thinking about hugging or showing someone they care happy to see them or care that much about them so that they know they are love or missed or welcomed there. Now for the as some of us call it french kissing this to is a form of showing affection but some thinks its also another form of deepening intimacy between two people who are getting deeper involved its away of them showing the other that they are ready to take things to a next level in there relationship or that they really like them. Some just likes the feeling it gives them it usually for them starts the first level of arousal, some will say they are spots inside of there mouths when the tongue caresses it just does something to them, then some sub missive's will tell you when a Dom grabs there hair and jerks there head back forcefully as they take there mouth in a vicious kiss it turns them to putty. Some like to kiss and then they are others who perfer not to it just isn't there thing and thats okay because everyone has things they like and things they do not like. I hope that this helps some if not just tell me and I will try to explain more to you but this is how I see things its not how everyone sees it, we can always talk on yahoo about it sometime......
Tinkerbell4393

Re: exchange of bodily fluids?

[darkoshi]

some will say they are spots inside of there mouths when the tongue caresses it just does something to them

sounds like an oral g-spot thing, hadn't heard that before; interesting.

some sub missive's will tell you when a Dom grabs there hair and jerks there head back forcefully as they take there mouth in a vicious kiss it turns them to putty.

okay, that part I can understand :)

thanks