darkoshi | wondering...

1. canvas sneakers.... they're not very waterproof, are they? and they don't usually have much arch-support, do they?

2. it sounds like you can't put a condom on an unerect penis... why? would it slip off because it would be too loose? or is it difficult to put on just because the penis isn't stiff?

3. safer sex.... when people talk about wanting "no exchange of bodily fluids", does that usually not include saliva? how safe or unsafe is open-mouthed kissing considered to be? what about oral sex? doing oral sex without a barrier is generally considered unsafe, isn't it?

As for that last question... I was reading a book in which the author, who seems to be relatively well-known and respected, was saying that except for monogamous heterosexual couples trying to procreate, everyone else should always use condoms while having sex, because due to the risk of diseases, there was "no reason to exchange bodily fluids". But then later he was talking about his partner doing some pretty good oral sex on him. And I wondered if he used a condom for that too, or not...

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1. No, and no. They're nice warm-weather shoes but walking long distances can be very painful.

2. It can't be done because the penis isn't stiff. Condoms have to be unrolled onto a penis, which requires an erection. It just doesn't work the other way around.

3. Normally, yes. It's an all or nothing kind of deal. Depends on the disease. A bad idea. Yes, it is usually considered unsafe unless you're in a strictly monogamous relationship.

He's got a point - it's very dangerous these days unless you've got iron-clad proof that your partner is clean. It's entirely possible that it was with a condom on (an unlubricated one, in all likelihood - spermicide and condom lube taste nasty).

1. oh well. that's what i thought. i'm doing some online shopping for shoes, since it's getting increasingly hard to find any non-leather ones in the stores, and I came across a few cool-looking canvas sneakers. so i was hoping maybe they weren't all as bad as i remembered in that regards.

2. i still don't get it. Guess it's going to take some real-life experience on that one for it to click. Maybe i should at least buy a few condoms and see what they're like close-up.

3. i'm not sure which questions each of your answers go to... but i sort of get your drift. and i really should do some more research on the topic, so that i don't feel as iffy as i do now on it. i guess i was also wondering, if unprotected oral sex is dangerous, wouldn't sharing saliva also be so.. but if so, why don't i ever hear people talking about not kissing, in regards to safer sex (because i've never heard about ppl using protection for kissing)

1. It is? I wonder why that is...

2. Good idea. The classic banana-and-condom routine might give you a better idea.

3. I tried to keep them in order as closely as possible. Try the AMA website, or some of the LGBT websites for a better idea of the risk incurred. I really don't know how dangerous kissing would be.

I know that it takes only one virus in one cell to infect a person or animal.

Your mouth contains millions of live cells including your white and red blood cells and bacteria. All of these cells are passed to whomever your are kissing. Your bodies normal defenses are your skin.. In the mouth most people have bleeding gums and ulcers at times that would allow the transfer of cells in and out of the body

.. There are The 284 bird species have been reported to CDC's that have been killed from West Nile Virus that is spread from insect bites, Mostly blood-feeding arthropods that include mosquitoes, sand flies, and ticks.. Virus is one of the simplest organisms that exist. its is only composed of a RNA strand and a protein cover.. it can be transmitted by itself or in a living cell.
Most government sites say that u cant get Aids from mosquitoes and other Arthropods but i would disagree because there are may virus that have been and being transmitted that way.
There are also many virus that are transmitted just by kissing, mono and the common cold are very commonly transmitted just by simple kissing..

so why do ppl kiss, especially casually as part of salutations, when it's icky and potentially virus-passing like that?

Guess they like it..

{why? what do they like about it?}

::no, don't ask. it just makes it obvious that you're strange and different from everyone else. you should just nod your head and pretend to understand what everyone else seems to understand without asking and without being able to answer.::

You are wondering why people like to kiss, well its one form of showing affection for people. I have seem any people kiss people on the cheek as they greet them or lightly on the lips no tongue, when they do this they are not thinking of the germs or viruses they could be getting. They are usually thinking about hugging or showing someone they care happy to see them or care that much about them so that they know they are love or missed or welcomed there. Now for the as some of us call it french kissing this to is a form of showing affection but some thinks its also another form of deepening intimacy between two people who are getting deeper involved its away of them showing the other that they are ready to take things to a next level in there relationship or that they really like them. Some just likes the feeling it gives them it usually for them starts the first level of arousal, some will say they are spots inside of there mouths when the tongue caresses it just does something to them, then some sub missive's will tell you when a Dom grabs there hair and jerks there head back forcefully as they take there mouth in a vicious kiss it turns them to putty. Some like to kiss and then they are others who perfer not to it just isn't there thing and thats okay because everyone has things they like and things they do not like. I hope that this helps some if not just tell me and I will try to explain more to you but this is how I see things its not how everyone sees it, we can always talk on yahoo about it sometime......
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some will say they are spots inside of there mouths when the tongue caresses it just does something to them

sounds like an oral g-spot thing, hadn't heard that before; interesting.

some sub missive's will tell you when a Dom grabs there hair and jerks there head back forcefully as they take there mouth in a vicious kiss it turns them to putty.

okay, that part I can understand :)

thanks

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