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What is wrong with me, in that I spend a large amount of time thinking about how I will deal with this furniture which is too heavy for me to move on my own, formulating schemes of how, perhaps, it might be possible to move it, if I build some kind of inclined ramp, or if I unscrew the cabinet door from the rest of the piece, or if I wrap around it with rope for me to get some kind of grip on it, or perhaps some kind of pulley-system...
When the obviously easiest way to move it, is to enlist someone else's help? I have someone else's help for now, but what about later? What if I'm on my own, and I want to move the furniture, and I don't have anyone to go to for help? What if I really don't want to ask a favor of anyone?
One of the reasons I even chose these pieces of furniture, is that they come in a bottom part and a top part. I figured that would be easier to transport and move, than a single piece. But the top part is still quite heavy. And it has to be lifted up on *top* the other part.
I wish they made light, nice furniture. Furniture which you can disassemble in order to move it.
But it is all because of some kind of social phobia, a fear of being dependent on others.
When the obviously easiest way to move it, is to enlist someone else's help? I have someone else's help for now, but what about later? What if I'm on my own, and I want to move the furniture, and I don't have anyone to go to for help? What if I really don't want to ask a favor of anyone?
One of the reasons I even chose these pieces of furniture, is that they come in a bottom part and a top part. I figured that would be easier to transport and move, than a single piece. But the top part is still quite heavy. And it has to be lifted up on *top* the other part.
I wish they made light, nice furniture. Furniture which you can disassemble in order to move it.
But it is all because of some kind of social phobia, a fear of being dependent on others.