Leave it on the Floor

Saturday, July 27th, 2024 03:53 pm
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Another fun song, from the Leave it on the Floor movie soundtrack:


Video title: Leave It On the Floor Final Dance
Posted by: George Laston
Date posted: Oct 13, 2015



My other favorite song from the movie:


Video title: Leave it on the floor - Knock Them MotherFuckers Down
Posted by: Chanell La'Sha!
Date posted: Jan 10, 2013
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Coloring the Past
Using recent breakthroughs in photo editing techniques, Eli colorizes, restores, and digitizes photos from queer and trans history. The following images are originally from 1897-1973. After noticing how much more responsive audiences are to color photos, Eli decided to work on these amazing moments from queer and trans history. During a time when politicians can openly argue trans people did not exist until 2015, it is important to use reminders like these that we have always been here. ...
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It shows my age, but I'm still impressed by things like this. With the way other things are lately, I can only hope that cultural/social/legal acceptance continues to improve.

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This WebMd article has not only one, but two photos of masculine individuals in emotionally intimate poses: Things That Suppress Your Immune System
(Lack of sleep is the first thing listed.)

The first photo might depict two close platonic friends, one expressing caring concern for the other. The second photo is less ambiguous, unless it's two *very* close platonic friends.

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I gave my nieces this graphic novel for Christmas:
The Secret Garden on 81st Street

As it looked interesting, I read it myself first. To my pleasant surprise, a gay male couple were among the main characters. Surprising, as it wasn't mentioned on the back cover or inside jacket flaps. It's nice that gayness is treated as such a normal thing that it doesn't need to be mentioned, even in a young adult book. In the old days I'm sure that would have caused an uproar. (It probably does still in some circles, but whatever.)

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Of course, there are many other examples, including ads.

Here's a nice video, even though it's not my kind of music: Kalen Allen: Christmas Lives Within You, ft. Michaela Jaé Rodriguez

Ah, this one is more my style, though not as sentimental:



Video title: Santa Slay (Official Music Video)
Posted by: The Kalen Allen
Date posted: Dec 13, 2020
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2022 U.S. Trans Survey
For trans and non-binary people in the U.S. The survey has been extended until Dec 5.

livejournal

Wednesday, March 16th, 2022 05:26 pm
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Today I again chose to wear my yellow/blue/pink striped socks which I got at the Pride Festival last year. Those are the colors of the pansexual flag. I am asexual, not pansexual, and got the socks mainly because the colors are pretty. Few people around here would know what the colors represent anyway.

Looking down at the socks on my legs, I belatedly realized that the blue and yellow colors are also like Ukraine's flag.

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I still have my old LiveJournal account. Several years back I imported all my old entries to Dreamwidth and deleted them from over there.

I've considered deleting the account, as I want nothing further to do with a Russian company, given the current government's abominable policies and actions.

But doing that seems like a wasted opportunity to post a message of some kind in an area where people from Russia might actually be able to see it. Perhaps I'd have to turn on Cyrillic services in the settings though, for my posts to be accessible from over there? Hmmm.

I hadn't noticed or remembered this from before, but on the LJ homepage there is a "Top LJ" dropdown which includes entries for: Cyrillic, non-Cyrillic, Russia, Ukraine, Belarus.

It is interesting to browse through those Cyrillic and Ukraine entries, using Google Translate to translate from Russian to English.

It is also wearisome, wondering who is behind each post and all the comments, trying to make sense of some of the translations, trying to figure out what side if any they are on in regards to the war in Ukraine, what nationality they are and in which country do they live, are they being paid to post misinformation, or are they writing what they truly believe based on what they've themselves experienced or based on the news they listen to?

Considering all that which is being posted, I doubt anything I could post would make the slightest impact on anyone, even if they did see it.
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If you watch this, don't miss the part at the very end!



Video title: Billy Porter - Children (Official Video)
Posted by: Billy Porter
Date posted: Dec 15, 2021
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I don't remember hearing about the following Supreme Court decisions. I'm not sure if it's because I don't watch the news regularly and didn't happen to come across it online, or if it's due to my memory not being so good anymore (I hear and read so many things; how can I remember it all?) ...Based on my browser history, I did read about the 2020 decision, but possibly not the other one.

In landmark case, Supreme Court rules LGBTQ workers are protected from job discrimination (June 2020)

Supreme Court Decision on BOSTOCK v. CLAYTON COUNTY (June 2020)

Supreme Court gives victory to transgender student who sued to use bathroom (June 2021)

Pauli Murray

Thursday, January 21st, 2021 09:38 pm
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MY NAME IS PAULI MURRAY - Sundance Film Festival: Columbia

Overlooked by history, Pauli Murray was a legal trailblazer whose ideas influenced RBG's fight for gender equality and Thurgood Marshall's landmark civil rights arguments. Featuring never-before-seen footage and audio recordings, a portrait of Murray's impact as a non-binary Black luminary: lawyer, activist, poet, and priest who transformed our world.


The "non-binary" descriptor caught my attention. While we can only guess what currently-used descriptors someone in the past might have used for themself, and I'm not familiar with Pauli's own writings, the Wikipedia page on Pauli Murray describes them more as a trans-man than a non-binary person.

I'm curious to watch the movie, but it doesn't appear to be available yet through streaming, and I don't feel like going to the Sundance showing at the local theater. It sounds like that will be indoors, with social distancing and mask wearing.

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Biden wastes no time shooting down Trump guidelines on LGBTQ rights

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Deep in Vogue

Sunday, January 17th, 2021 04:42 am
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These were pretty good videos shown after the Deep in Vogue documentary.

Dark Matter - House of Ghetto


Video title: Dark Matter
Posted by: Amy Watson
Date posted: 2017-04-10



Allow Me - Crazy P


Video title: Allow Me- Crazy P
Posted by: Amy Watson
Date posted: 2018-07-31



NOWNESS - House of Decay


Video title: House of Decay - NOWNESS
Posted by: NOWNESS
Date posted: 2019-01-31



The documentary title is based on this song:
Malcolm McLaren - Deep In Vogue ( With Willie Ninja )
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Our local Richland County Library system no longer charges fines for overdue books:
https://twitter.com/accessfreely/status/1138790635274670080

They already removed the fines for children's & teen books a while ago, but now have also removed them for adult books. There is still a replacement fee for "lost" books:

Loan period on items=21 days. If there are no holds on it, you can renew. If there are holds or you’ve exhausted all of your renewals, we give you 30 days past the due date to return the item before it’s considered lost. + If you bring it back all replacement fees are removed! :)

I wonder how that will work out. One reason I stopped using the library is because I can hardly ever finish reading a book anymore in the short time frame before it is due, even if I renew it. Theoretically, now I could check out a book and keep it for as long as it took to read it. But it would still be considered overdue and then lost in the meantime, so I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that. But maybe other people will? I prefer digital books now anyway, as carrying my Kindle is less heavy than most books.

The library also has digital books available, and movies and music... I haven't taken advantage of any of that although I started browsing through the music once.

The library's Twitter feed:
https://twitter.com/accessfreely

They've posted links to LGBTQ-oriented books: https://www.hoopladigital.com/collection/4123
graphic novels: https://www.richlandlibrary.com/books-movies-music/queer-comics-teens
and movies: https://www.kanopy.com/category/tags/celebrate-pride-month

At least one of the branch libraries even has a Pride display. I'm impressed, considering this is South Carolina.
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This is very disturbing: Chechnya’s president: I will eliminate the gay community by the start of Ramadan

Rainbow Railroad - a Canadian organization that helps LGBT people escape persecution and violence. They are making Chechnya a priority right now.

American Friends of the Rainbow Railroad - if you are a U.S. tax-payer, this site lets you make tax-deductible donations to the Canadian organization.

Other ways to help
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On my lunchtime walk, I noticed some traffic cones in the field behind the tennis courts. They'd never been there before. Maybe there were there to keep people from falling into some kind of hole, or what else could the reason be? I walked in that direction to check it out.

As I got nearer, I saw that the cones were positioned in a circle. To my surprise, in the very center of the circle, a small bird was standing!

It felt surreal like a dream. Why would a bird be standing in the center of a circle of traffic cones?

Times like that, I wish I always carried my cell phone on me, to be able to take a photo.

I didn't want to frighten the bird, so I didn't go any closer, but rather walked on past while still looking. There was another bird of the same type outside of the cones. It walked into the circle towards the other bird. When it reached the center, it took the first bird's place, and the other bird walked away in the opposite direction. Half-way doing one of those funny bird-walks.

So. I can only presume that there's a nest of eggs on the ground right there, and someone put up the cones as a warning to keep the nest from being trampled or driven over with a lawnmower. I wonder who did it, and where they got the cones from.

It was a hot afternoon, and the whole area was in the sun. I imagine the birds were shading the nest with their bodies to keep the eggs from over-heating.

The birds were brownish, with a ring around the neck. Most likely killdeer:
The birds nest on the ground. They do not build a nest but will lay their eggs in a depression in gravel. The nest, and speckled eggs blend easily into the background making them hard to see. ... Both parents take turns incubating 4 buff, speckled eggs for 24 to 28 days.

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After work, I drove to the grocery store. A car in front of me had a SC Equality license plate, like mine. It's the first time I've come across another car with one of these plates! I was tickled, and wished they could have seen my license plate too.

At Kroger, I checked the ice cream section, and for the first time they had non-dairy Ben & Jerry's. They had all 4 flavors, so I got one of each. They taste good!

They also still had a bunch of Clif Bars on the shelves, including the recalled flavors. I checked the use-by dates on them, and they seemed to be within the recall period. That surprised and unsettled me. I made a note to check the recall notice again after I got home, to make sure I was remembering the dates right. I didn't buy any of those, but got a few bars of the other flavors.

At the self-checkout counter, the automated voice advised me to check the bottom of my receipt for an important message. It was a note about the recall again.

After getting home, I checked the recall notification, and verified that the ones I had seen should have been recalled. (Unless I actually misread the dates on the items, which isn't to be ruled out, the way my brain has been acting lately.) So I called the store and advised them to double-check the items on the shelf. I'm not sure if the CSR took me seriously, but at least I tried.

LGBT employment rights

Saturday, July 18th, 2015 11:58 am
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First big policy win for gay rights in the US after same-sex marriage
The federal commission that investigates these claims has ruled that discriminating against lesbian, gay, and bisexual employees for their sexual orientation counts as discrimination on the basis of sex, which is prohibited nationwide in Title VII of the Civil Rights Act.
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It’s very simply stated: “‘Sexual orientation’ as a concept cannot be defined or understood without reference to sex. … It follows, then, that sexual orientation is inseparable from and inescapably linked to sex and therefore, that allegations of sexual orientation discrimination involve sex-based considerations.”
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The ruling doesn’t hold the legal weight of a Supreme Court decision, but it applies to federal employees, and federal courts that receive discrimination complaints can use it as a form of precedent.
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Video title: All The Little Things | Panti | TEDxDublin
Posted by: TEDx Talks
URL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hIhsv18lrqY
Description: Speech by Irish drag queen Panti at TEDx Dublin.

pride

Wednesday, June 11th, 2014 11:35 pm
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At work, a corporate diversity email was sent out in honor of LGBT Pride month. I thought the sentiment was nice. It was similar to other ones we've gotten for African-American History month, and Hispanic-American pride, etc.

I heard a co-worker a few cubes away, however, joking/scoffing at the email. Saying she sometimes wished she could unsubscribe from all these corporate emails. "When are we going to get a heterosexual pride month?" Something dismissive of transsexual people. And then something like "I don't think we have anyone (LGBT) on this floor, do we?" (simply in a curious questioning tone).

The way she said all this didn't sound hateful to me; I could believe she doesn't really have anything against gay people. (And she probably has no experience with real trans people.) But it also sounded like she doesn't get it.

I started thinking that I could tell her that if she wanted to celebrate pride in her heterosexuality, that's fine. But the reason why LGBT people need Pride marches and such, is to counter-balance the shame, fear, and stigma they've grown up with.

Personally, my gender-neutral trans-ness and asexuality is mostly invisible to others, and I haven't encountered any such stigma myself. It's not something I feel a need to have pride in, nor is it something that I've ever felt bad or ashamed of.

But for gay and trans people who haven't been so lucky and who have faced hatred, bullying, and mocking during their lives, who've felt the need to hide their identity from others, the *pride* is necessary simply to offset that weight of negativity that they've encountered. It's necessary, simply to be able to feel good about themselves. And it's a way to share camaraderie with others.

It's not the same thing to be told, "you're gay and that's ok now, but don't flaunt it". Because not flaunting it can be interpreted as needing to hide it, as any expression of gayness can be interpreted as a flaunting thereof.

Anyway. I wasn't really planning to tell her all that; it simply crossed my mind. Then I thought, she's just reacting to an experience she's not used to; she'll get over it. Someday she'll get used to these kind of things, and that's part of the point of them.

Then I had the idea to send her an email telling her that yes there's someone LGBT on the floor, that I'm trans though probably not in any way she is familiar with. At that thought, my pulse started racing, and I could hear and feel the blood whooshing in my head*. I quickly decided that I couldn't compose any well written email in such a mental state. So I went out to lunch instead.

*Similar to what it used to do in school/college, whenever I seriously considered raising my hand to ask the teacher a question, or to comment on something. That's a big reason why I didn't do that very often; it was so very nerve-wracking.

I do however often feel that I'm not trans enough to call myself trans to others. That they'd say I'm not really trans. They'd deny my identity. (Or laugh and start thinking of me as weird.) They can't even conceive of it. So why even tell anyone?

so far, today

Sunday, September 29th, 2013 02:36 pm
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I completely missed hearing anything about this year's Pride Fest which took place yesterday, until today when (belatedly) skimming a local news & events email.

The fest included a performance by the 80s band "Berlin". I might have liked to hear them play. Then again, I don't know... milling about downtown with a bunch of people would have felt awkward. Like the other times I went. And the music might have made me feel nostalgically sad. Or hopelessly chipper.

An occasion which would feel like just another burst of personally meaningless color, noise, and sensory input.

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I have a dish-washing detergent scented with "clary sage and citrus". The sage smells to me like vegan sausage, which is an odd thing to wash dishes with.

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Valerie June. I love her voice. Came across her while doing a search on "Somebody to Love" (Berlin's cover of the Jefferson Airplane song). She's just released a new album, Pushin' Against A Stone.


Video title: Valerie June | You Can't Be Told
Posted by: Concord Music Group
URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nEhKbjrSfp4



Video title: VALERIE JUNE 'Somebody to Love' LIVE The Deaf Institute 150513
Posted by: transeuropa
URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OvNcuCRJaQ


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Aah...


Video title: Chasing Skaters Down Stunt
Posted by: TheSmokingTire
URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t00TYOcr9nA

Dyke TV

Sunday, March 31st, 2013 08:06 pm
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There was a show called "Dyke TV", which I used to watch sometimes on FreeSpeechTV on Dish Network, way back. Today I was reminded of the show when I came across an old donation receipt from them. Wondering if the show was still around (maybe on the internet), I did a search, but a lot of the results were related to Dick Van Dyke.

So I modified my query... "Dyke TV -dick".

::amused::

According to this page, Dyke TV was first broadcast in 1993, and was on the air for at least 13 years.
Dyke TV aired for the first time in 1993 on a lone public access cable (PAC) channel in Manhattan. Today, the show is broadcast on PAC stations and the independent satellite channel, Free Speech TV, in 78 cities and 23 states across the US, which have a combined subscriber base of 4 million viewers. Episodes feature current news and events, political commentary, arts, health, sports and other issues of interest to lesbians in the US and beyond. We use this national platform to support balanced, LGBT-specific programming from diverse rural, urban, racial, economic, artistic and political perspectives.


The last time the original www.dyketv.org website was archived by the Internet Archive, was on Sep. 26, 2004.

This myspace page indicates that they shut down "5 years ago":
After thirteen years of groundbreaking, award-winning videos by, for, and about
queer women, Dyke TV has shut its doors, ended production, and dissolved its
non-profit corporation.

Dyke TV's free and low-cost video production and editing classes spurred the
careers of many of our community's most innovative video and film artists. The
self-produced videos in Dyke TV's entertainment/news magazine television show
opened eyes and minds, and paved the way for queer shows like The L Word and
queer channels like Logo and here!.

Funding and organizational support issues have unfortunately forced DTV to shut
down, just after receiving a federal trademark for its name.

Dyke TV would like to thank the volunteers, funders, students, staff, board
members, and video subjects who made Dyke TV the amazing show and organization
that it was for so many years.

Good luck to all the video and film artists out there who continue to change the
world with their visions, creating "Television to Incite, Subvert, Provoke, and
Organize!"

The Dyke TV team
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Lana gives a long speech. I wasn't planning to watch the whole thing*, but it was so entertaining and touching, that I did.


Video title: Lana Wachowski receives the HRC Visibility Award
Posted by: Human Rights Campaign
URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=crHHycz7T_c


And her hair is beautiful!

* I was initially intrigued by the following quote from the speech (between 12:34 and 12:47) which a fellow androgyne pointed out:

". . . transition. Parenthetically, this is a word that is a very complicated subject for me because of its complicity in a binary gender narrative that I am not particularly comfortable with."
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I got one of the SC Equality license plates for my car. It is quite nice looking:



The black rectangle is where the numbers are. The white rectangles are where the month/year stickers go.

If you own a vehicle registered in South Carolina, and if you've been thinking about getting one of these plates, I'd suggest you don't wait too long. Based on SC Code Section 56-3-8000,
"If the department receives less than three hundred biennial applications and renewals for a particular plate authorized under this section, it shall not produce additional plates in that series. The department shall continue to issue plates of that series until the existing inventory is exhausted."

Based on the number I got, it doesn't look like 300 have been issued yet.

I was uncertain how much to pay for the plate. The application form (MV-95) indicates that you should pay $25 plus the regular registration fee (which is $24 for passenger cars), so I sent $49. They sent me a $12 refund, however. What is stated on the SC Equality site seems to be correct:
"If your current registration is less than one year old, you will not have to pay an additional registration fee, and will pay just the $25.00 plate fee. If your registration is in its second year, the DMV will ask you to pay just one year in order to have a full, two-year active registration.".

The MV-95 form also states:
"If your current tag is within three months of expiring, you should pay your property taxes and renew your plate BEFORE you submit an application for a specialty plate."

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